Love Spells and the Basics of Love Magic ,Love magic is an extremely controversial topic in spell work. There are many perspectives about the ethics of bending another’s will for their admiration. Luckily, there are rules that apply when casting such spells. So if you want to find love but don’t want things to get dark, you’re in the right place.
Before we dig in to what love magic is, it’s important to try and take back your power. True love starts within. You don’t need validation from someone else, and if a relationship has become toxic it’s time to cut it out of your life. These spells are about love, which doesn’t always involve another person, so feel free to use them to bathe yourself in the TLC you deserve.
Now, let’s get to the fun stuff:
Love magic is the act of attracting, well, love! Don’t be fooled, though: It won’t make someone fall in love with you. Love magic only works if the energy is there and already headed in a certain direction. Meaning, if you and your crush have mutual feelings for each other, magic can help accelerate the energy between you two. It will act like a magnetic force drawing you both together. Rather than making someone fall in love with you, love magic is about attracting love that already exists — and that can come in many forms. Keep an open mind and an open heart.ADVERTISEMENT
In order to be successful in your love spells, it’s important to be clear and honest with your intention. This requires a proper petition to be drawn up by the spell caster. In this letter, clearly state what you want from a particular person or what you want to attract in your own life. A letter of intention must be to the point and kept private. After the letter is created, burn it so the energy from the ashes is released into the universe.
When writing a letter of intention or even starting a spell, it’s essential to take note of what is best for you. If you are only seeking to attract a boo who is emotionally unavailable, then they won’t appear in your life as a result. If you are conjuring someone who appeals to your higher mindset, then you’ll attract that person and energy.
Sometimes spells don’t work because we desire people for the wrong reasons. Simply put: You can’t make a person fall in love with you. As stated above, the feelings in the relationship must be mutual. If they are not, then the magic will fall flat.
Additionally, magic only works if you are putting yourself out there. As in non-magical love, if you’re sitting at home and not interacting with others, you’re not super likely to find your true love. You get what you give.
Spells might also fail if there’s information missing, or the witch conducting the spell isn’t being completely honest with themselves about the situation — or the person they lust for isn’t being truthful with them. Love magic will rip all of these dynamics open for us to see the real story. This is why it’s recommended not to conduct love magic on a particular person, but to open the gates of happiness toward a healthy relationship. Like we said, don’t think of this as bringing someone specific to you. Instead, it can create the best possible path for us to find love.
Can love magic backfire?
Yes! This can happen when your guides (your ancestors and spirits) have a different path for you. Usually, they will steer you in the right place — but only if you listen to them. For instance, if you’re firing up a love candle and the wick stops burning, chances are your spirits are telling you it’s a moot point. Conversely, if the wick is cracking and popping, then it’s a matter that requires extra work.